Helping Your New Cat Adjust

Bringing home a new cat is an exciting time, but they need time to settle in and feel safe. The 3-3-3 Rule is a helpful guideline for what to expect in the first 3 days, 3 weeks, and 3 months of their transition into your home. Some cats adjust more quickly, while others may take longer—every cat is unique!

First 3 Days: Decompression Time

Your new cat is likely feeling overwhelmed and unsure of their surroundings. They may hide, be less interested in eating, or act differently than expected. Give them a quiet space with food, water, and a litter box, and let them come to you on their terms.

Tips for Success:
  • Provide a cozy, enclosed space like a small room or a covered bed.
  • Keep noise and activity levels low.
  • Avoid overwhelming them with too much interaction—let them come to you.

First 3 Weeks: Building Trust

As your cat becomes more comfortable, their personality will start to emerge. They may begin exploring, interacting more, and settling into a routine. This is a great time to establish feeding schedules, playtime, and gentle socialization.

Tips for Success:
  • Stick to a consistent feeding and playtime routine.
  • Use treats and soft-spoken encouragement to build trust.
  • Introduce other pets and family members slowly and calmly.

First 3 Months: Feeling at Home

By now, your cat should feel like part of the family! They understand the household routine, have formed bonds with you, and truly feel at home. Some cats may take longer to fully adjust, so continue to be patient and supportive.

Tips for Success:
  • Provide plenty of enrichment with scratching posts, toys, and perches.
  • Continue positive reinforcement to encourage good habits.
  • Respect their personality—some cats will always be more independent than others.

Adjusting to a new home takes time, but with love, patience, and understanding, your cat will soon thrive in their forever home!

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